I'm in need of venting...
Yesterday we found out we were pregnant with our 3rd baby, we are ecstatic. Lots of people have more than two children right? some even 4 or 5 or more! Why is our 3rd baby a problem to some?
what is the problem is it that I have an 11 month old? DO I need to wait a "acceptable" period between children? How did I go from yaay for your second baby to comments such as.
"are you kidding me?"
"are you serious?"
"You're a baby machine"
"You're going to have your hands full"
"You don't know what you're getting yourself into/"
"Ugh I hate babies"
"aren't you tired of being pregnant?"
"Please tell me this is your last one"
"Are you guys getting a vasectomy or tubes tied after?"
"Poor DD#2 she wont enjoy being a baby"
"you're gonna need more money!"
Why do I want more? I don't need to explain this to ANYONE.. you can think what you like but let me just say something.
We love our children, it was both of our idea.. we are gentle, kind, loving, and we felt we were missing just one more in our little clan to feel complete. And we could not be any happier.
Our children are our life right now.. there will be time for other things.. but as for now.. we love being mom and dad.. sure they drive us crazy at times which kiddo doesn't but we wouldn't have it any other way..
I just wish people would just keep comments such as these to themselves.. a simple congrats will do.
We are not you.... We don't have to go by your standards..... and most important..We're not hurting anyone with Our choice.
A very Happy family <3