If my baby were to be snatched from me people would easily recognize her by the tattoo I gave her.
I have a "tramp stamp" and I want her to look like mommy.
All the boys will like her, and she will never be teased for not having a tramp stamp.
The Doctor's say babies don't feel pain, I can just give her a little sugar water, while they tattoo her little back.
I'll save her the pain of having to make the decision later and going through the pain because I am just SO SURE that she will want her own tramp stamp.
She might be upset at me for not taking her to get it "over with" when she was little.
Now the Problem is... NO tattoo artist would in their right mind's tattoo a baby!, It is illegal for someone under 18 to get a tatto. BUT SHE IS MY CHILD! Why would the government try to tell me what I can or can't do with my own kid! Oh.. wait.. am I shocking you?? Let me ask you... Would you tatto your child? My guess is no.
And I wouldn't either.. and NO, though I do have tattos, I don't have a "tramp stap" BUT Kudos to the ones that do.. the great thing about it is that if you did.. it was YOUR choice, not your parent's. YOU made a choice to get it done and you are either happy (or not as we know most of us aren't all there at 18, some are but not most)
BUT it is NOT THE SAME.
YES IT IS! CIRCUMCISION IS NOT MEDICALLY NECESSARY! just like a tattoo isn't! It is merely an aesthetic procedure. The most common reason.. "so the boy can look like his dad".
I asked my husband (he's anti circumcision after I painfully explained what he was missing out on I was doing research after I read on the "debate" going on many mom forums.) if he ever compared his penis' with his father's they took showers together just like I do with my girls, they were both circ'd but his answer was, "it doesn't matter it wasn't a big deal I didn't look hard enough, besides of course it was different than mine, his was a grown man's! Now I don't know how many of those boys that have been circumcised to look like their dad's get to compare penises as adults. Do you?
Another popular reason is, "so he wont be teased" I don't know of many activities nowadays that require boys or girls being naked together... people are so scared with liability and sex laws that I remember even when I was in High school, the showers were used as storage for the school. What we need to know is teach in sex ed the differences of a circumcised and uncircumcised penis, it's proper care AND teach the FUNCTION of the foreskin, because it HAS a function. SEXUAL PLEASURE.
Does diminishing your son's pleasure in the future, worth your convenience? Is it worth your ignorance? "Ignorance" Is not an insult.. it is only an insult when you stubbornly decide to look the other way and not take in the information that is presented to you out of stubbornness, pride or shame about what has already been done.
I am trying to save future sons from such an unnecessary intervention.
You can Read more here this is the first thing that popped on google when I was doing research and I didn't need to read more, this changed my mind immediately.
Informed Consent for a Medically Necessary Circumcision <----THIS IS NOT a PRO nor a CON site, It provides information! and just reading that alone made me decide to keep my future sons if I had any intact.
Here is a great Post FULL of info, if you want to get more into the subject..
How Far would you got to reject your child by Guggie Daly.
Another Reason I am comparing Circumcision to tattooing.
Are we allowed to tattoo a child because of religious beliefs?
Some People have tattoos some don't but in the end it is not up to us to make that choice for them.
Some States allow it with parental consent, some not at all, but would any respectful tattoo artist work on a child?
I am also doing this because A man, yes a MAN! started a proposition going in San Francisco to BAN Male Genital cutting. Read more here .. And it has caused an uproar all over the web and on T.V while it's a great step.. I believe it should be like tattooing.
Make the legal age 18! You're allowed to modify your body then out of your own personal CHOICE!, don't take away the choice period... just let the individual do so for himself!
Let's see how many 18 yr olds would do it, especially after they learned what circumcision takes away..... Pleasure!
I Do not judge parents who have circumcised their children... I DO judge those who then refuse to read the information that they didn't read before and admit their mistake. Because I doubt anyone who reads all the evidence would still do this to their child. Especially after watching the videos of circumcisions being performed. I could have posted those here but I didn't want to go there.
Like I said before, Making decisions for your child is NOT your RIGHT! it is you PRIVILEGE! and as such we must research any decision we make for them. We will make mistakes.. but there is nothing wrong in admitting you were misinformed or not informed at all , moving forward and spreading the message to someone who is not yet informed with the facts.
Knowledge is power, and with knowledge comes the responsibility to make better choices and spread the facts.
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