report made on her parenting I can say that really indeed we are all Habiba, at least a lot of us are.
I am guilty of all of the things that "flawed" her as a parent, things that should be considered wholesome, healthy, and in the child's best interest!
"The hours and type of food are chaotic" and " she uses breastfeeding as a pacifier and a toy, offering her breast any time the girl cries and letting her take it anywhere, no matter the time and context in which this happens (offices, corridors). "
When my daughter cries...
"She gives her the pureed food that is already prepared by the shelter, but also other solid foods that are inappropriate for her age (like the ones Habiba eats). Over the weekends when she needs to make the pureed fruit herself, more often she doesn’t and breastfeeds instead. "
My baby eats what I eat...
and when in doubt... I breastfeed!
"We attempted to regularize and limit breastfeeding times, but it did not seem possible, so the possibility of stopping breastfeeding was raised ...." "... she continued to breastfeed. She was given pacifiers, but she didn’t use them either
try telling that to a baby!! "Sorry kid bureaucracy says you must stop nursies and you gotta suck on this plastic instead"
"She (Alma) does not have proper sleep patterns. From the first moment Habiba didn’t want the girl to sleep in her cot and she lies with her in her own bed. She uses the cot to drop off things and toys and on very rare occasions to leave the girl ... "
HA! this is how my baby went to sleep tonight..
And how she's been sleeping every night...
"Habiba is very affectionate with Alma, uses physical contact and verbal expression as a means of communication. The child is constantly searching for visual reference from her mother and has been some anxious fear towards the separation. "
Everywhere I go... my baby is with me! Why would I want her to become independent so young?
Why has society strayed so much from this that it would even be deemed questionable?
So many children who NEED this type of parenting don't get it.. why would a mother be persecuted for this?
I DON'T GET IT!!
WE ARE ALL HABIBA!! <3